What is the Difference Between Empathy and Sympathy

Sep 3, 2025, 09:24 IST

Understanding the difference between empathy and sympathy can change the way you connect with people. Empathy means you feel with someone, while sympathy means you feel for someone. Both matter, but they affect relationships in different ways. Here is the difference with real-life examples to help you use the right approach in personal and professional life.

What is the Difference Between Empathy and Sympathy
What is the Difference Between Empathy and Sympathy

When we have interactions with people especially during difficult times, there are two words that often come up almost everytime which are Empathy and Sympathy. Yes, these words definitely sound similar, however, they don't have similar meanings. There is a small yet an important difference between these words and understanding this difference can help you connect with others in a better way. These terms are known for emotions and human connection but they have different approaches. 

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What is Empathy?

Empathy is the ability to put yourself in someone else’s shoes and truly feel what they are going through. It’s not just about recognizing their pain but experiencing it with them on an emotional level.

For example:

If your friend loses a loved one, empathy is when you not only understand their sadness but also feel a deep sense of grief with them. You connect emotionally, almost as if their loss is your own.

In short, empathy is about sharing feelings.

What is Sympathy?

Sympathy, on the other hand, is about acknowledging someone else’s suffering but from a bit of a distance. In simple terms this means that you care about their pain but there is no way that you can feel it the same way. 

For example:

If your colleague is struggling with stress, sympathy is when you say, “I’m sorry you’re going through this.” You recognize their struggle but don’t experience their stress firsthand.

In short, sympathy is about showing concern.

Key Differences Between Empathy and Sympathy

Aspect

Empathy

Sympathy

Definition

The ability to understand and share someone else’s feelings.

Acknowledging someone’s hardship without fully sharing the emotion.

Emotional Connection

Deep, personal, and emotional involvement.

More distant and observational.

Expression

“I feel your pain, I can understand what you’re going through.”

“I feel sorry for what you’re going through.”

Perspective

Putting yourself in the other person’s shoes.

Recognizing the situation but staying outside of it.

Impact on Relationship

Builds stronger emotional bonds and trust.

Shows care but keeps a boundary.

Example

A friend says: “I know how painful this must be. I faced something similar and I will be here for you to help you get through this. I have faced something similar and I will be here for you." 

A friend says: " I am really sorry to head about what happened last night. I wish the best and hope things get better soon."

In conclusion, both empathy and sympathy are important for human interation and they serve the purpose of communicating while respecting the boundaries. Knowing the correct usage of these words can help you portray your feelings better.

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Nikhil Batra
Nikhil Batra

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Nikhil comes from a commerce background, but his love for writing led him on a different path. With more than two years of experience as a content writer, he aspires to breathe life into words. He completed his B.Com. from DU and finds joy in traveling and exploring new and hidden places. Do drop your feedback for him at nikhil.batra@jagrannewmedia.com and let him know if you love his work

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